When You Need It BadFrom a law of attraction perspective, you know what it means to need something really bad, right?
In case you haven't already figured it out through personal experience, it
basically means you're out of luck.
Because the more you need something, the more you're sure not to get it.
That's due to that little "like attracts like" principle in our world.
When you're flowing the feeling of need, all you can attract are results
that reinforce that feeling.
Which means feelings like satisfaction, fulfillment and relief are far far
away. All you get is more "need."
So what does an law of attraction savvy creator do when they find themselves
needing something bad, whether it's $650 by Friday, good test results, a
green light, this dress to fit, or whatever else you may be feeling
desperate about?
Here are a few tips to help unload the need so you can finally
get what you
want:
1) Take a deep breath. Seriously, just a good dose of oxygen will help
recalibrate your vibe and start to shake up that "need" feeling you've been
entertaining.
2) Remember what matters. Repositioning to a higher perspective can
help release the need. Like, when I feel needy that my sweetheart
understand how wrong he is - once I'm aware I'm in the grip of Need, I
remind myself what really matters: Everyone's here (dogs and cats all
accounted for), everyone's healthy, and there's chocolate in the cupboard.
Relief!
3) Question the thought. Very often we scare ourselves about
consequences that aren't real, aren't likely, or aren't actually as bad as
we thought.
Byron Katie's
Work can be helpful when we're believing something that causes negative
feelings. Is it true? Can you know that it's true? How
does that thought make you feel? How would you feel if you couldn't
think that thought? And then a golden turnaround. There's never
been a time these questions haven't offered me at least SOME relief.
4) Satisfy the need now. How would you feel when you get this
thing/person you need? Find a way to feel that way now. That
takes this thing (or person) off the hook for making you feel better and
also puts you in immediate vibrational alignment.
It's from that place of alignment (and no longer needing it in order to feel
better) that lets it manifest in your experience.
If you're so inclined, please feel free to reproduce this article in full with proper author credit (that would be me, Jeannette Maw) and link back to Good Vibe Coaching. Thanks!
